27013: "pictures of my aunt francesca who was the first of my relatives with whom i connected back after years apart with my mother breaking relationship with my father's family and discovering a person with a big heart who used to be very beautiful and married a rich but old englishman after working as an au pair for his family also getting to know how my mother's father sexually harassed her and generally becoming a widow at a very young age taking care of her daughter and only having one more relationship with an italian man who made her loose a consistent part of the inheritance she got from her dead english husband soon after turning to smoking and staying confined to her house getting daily migraines but still being able to be very sweet especially to my kids but also to me and trying to be very light with her especially on the topic of my fahter who was her closest siblings and not revealing how radicalized he became living alone in canada"